Saturday, November 19, 2022

Starting Over



Photo credit is on the photo okay? (Shutterstock)


It is 2:55 pm, November 19th, 2022.

After having an extensive conversation with my sister, I have decided for the umpteenth time and the first time too, to take my life by force.
I have a new responsibility so I can no longer be selfish with my time and every other thing that I have been selfish with in the past that has not gotten me prepared for where I am right now.

If you saw my previous post, you would have seen me complain about the fact that I AM BROKE.
Now, however, I am saying it with pride because I am about to change that one way or another.

So to start with, I have skills, lots of them, let us list them out, shall we?
•I am a good writer
•I am a good artist - I draw
•I am a good hairdresser
•I am good at knitting.
• I have great vocals.

Academic qualifications,
•Graduated second class lower division in marketing from the University of Port Harcourt
•Graduated from computer school with vast knowledge of Microsoft Office tools.
•Great knowledge of using editing apps - graduated from the school of search engines and YouTube.

What are my experiences?
•I have experience in hotel management
•I have been a freelancer for a long time in content writing and proofreading.

What am I going to do with all this?
I do not know YET.

But what am I doing now?
•Researching from scratch.
So this is what we would be working with.
•Paetreon
•Online courses to improve our CV (I would list the courses I take and the site I take them on as I go)
•Upwork
•Coursera
•Linked In
•My new training on microblading
•More research...

We will improve ourselves together, like I said, you are my accountability coach...

Walk with me, let's go!

My New Beginning






This is not how I saw this blog at all.
I envisioned something like this blog being an interesting and interactive kind of blog, maybe it still would be, I do not know.
But for now, she, Yes I mean SHE- will serve as my track and motivation space.

No need for an additional introduction, but I will briefly point out why this blog is about to be what she is about to be.

I am a new mum with 12k in my account and a 4-month-old son. I feel like I am not being as productive as I should be, I also feel like I am not the first woman to have a child in the circumstance I did and I also know that being a mother fresh out of the university could be a start of something great- including in my finances because I do not care about anything else other than taking care of my child comfortably.

So why is this blog going to be my track and motivation,
Because I am tired of sitting and wondering what I can do with myself to make ends meet and I am stepping into the productive mindset that I can make things work, thanks to my real-life motivator - my sister. 

So this is me, starting from my scratch, with 12k cash and a book and pen in front of me, trying to start my life on a clean slate.
Reading, researching doing what I can online to improve myself.

What would be my goal?
To have no money problems by the time my son is 1 year old.
To be comfortable with the woman I became

What would be my line of action?
Do the work - however way it goes.

Like my sister said - Do not relent, chill, and do not think too much.
So here is to be DOING and THINKING LESS!

What is your interest now in this blog?
I do not know,
Be my accountability chief?
Grow with me, because I will be spilling what works and what doesn't, what I did and what I did not do. 

Overall, like I said this was not my plan for the blog, but then I always need a place to rant, complain and celebrate, and what best than a place where the memories of today would last till whenever?

Walk with me... Let's go!

A LITTLE CATCHING UP

I know I said I would be consistent here, but as usual, I have flopped at that. Just so that I didn't overwhelm myself, this space is of...